May 6, 2012

Why Are You So Mean To ME?!?!?!

Posted in BULLYING, STRESS tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , at 11:44 pm by PCOSLady

Bullies can't hurt you IF they can't get to you!  ~   Let their words, etc... pass by, through, around, over you! ~ You can be almost invisible!

Bullies can’t hurt you IF they can’t get to you! ~ Let their words, etc… pass by, through, around, over you! ~ You can be almost invisible!


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Why Are You So Mean To ME?!?!?!
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PCOS Lady:
Bullying creates several issues in any scenario compounded by stressing out all involved!
~ PCOS is made worse from stress…
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We seem to ask ourselves this question many times… First time may be the 1st clue to abuse… 2nd time might be well into the relationship, questioning ourselves on why, etc… 3rd time may happen after you feel you have done all you can to please them! Yet the scenario is the same or worse…
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MSN Group: Why Are You So Mean To ME?!?!?! (group deleted)
I thank the woman, 30+ year social worker who started and ran this MSN group for abused women for years… We all learned a great deal! Abusers only progressively get worse! Some to the point of killing… Only a select few actually change for the better…
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Abuse of all kinds started from some where, some how, some one…
~ Some say a Narcissistic Personality is the cause…
~ Some say the abuser was conditioned growing up in an abusive family…
~ Some say the abuser was a black sheep in the family…
~ Some say the abuser was insecure…
~ Etc…
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Bullying laws have been passed in many states, school teachers in some states are legally obligated to report abuse and bullying to the law…
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“YOU” the public can change your neighborhoods, etc… by turning in the abuse, abusers, gang activity, etc… you witness in anonymously!
~ Gang activity now falls under Homeland Security laws…
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I found this fantastic site from the UK loaded with highly informative information covering numerous topics… I posted a section here to show the wide variety of topics covered…
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http://www.bullyonline.org/related/stalking.htm#Links
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Violence, rage, abuse, discrimination and issues related to bullying
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~ Bullying by neighbors
~ Bullying by landlords
~ Bullying by the church
~ Bullying and cults
~ Bullying and prisons
~ Bullying and whistleblowing
~ Bullying and stammering
~ Bullying and age discrimination
~ Bullying and long hours
~ Bullying and minorities
~ Bullying of gays and lesbians
~ Transsexuals and bullying
~ Bullying and disfigurement
~ Bullying and adoption
~ Bullying and eating disorders
~ Bullying and racism
~ Bullying because you’re seen as overweight or fat
~ The cost of drugs and alcohol at work
~ Corporate bullying and fad-speak
~ Working from home ~ Management consultants
~ Bullying and business ethics
~ Toxic management
~ Bullying and fat cats
~ Bullying and call centres
~ Bullying and snooping
~ Cyberbullying, emails and the Internet
~ Abusive telephone calls
~ Bullying and mobile phones
~ Health and safety
~ The welfare officer
~ Domestic violence
~ A serial bully in the family
~ Female violence
~ Bullying and anger
~ Road rage, office rage
~ Verbal violence
~ Violence
~ Gun violence
~ Spree killings
~ Bullying and abuse
~ Sexual abuse
~ Drug rape
~ Stalking
~ Bullying in the movies
~ Trauma and the paranormal
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April 29, 2012

MEN ON CHEATING

Posted in FYI - TID BITS tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , at 9:49 pm by PCOSLady


Why Do Men Cheat?
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PCOS Lady
I have been watching and hearing about women push their men away for years… You know who you are! Then those women get infuriated at their men and his new “woman” that they caused to happen!
~ For years i have been bombarded by men of all ages (20’s through 70’s) … I asked every one that was attached why he was looking outside his relationship… I then asked if they talked to their partners about it and their woman’s reply… Most women refused to talk about it! Most had hormone imbalance issues! Issues they refused to have looked into with a doctor!
~ Men seek what they do not have with their wife at home!
~ Men tell me they love their wife…
FACT: Men show their love for you in making love to you!
~ If you are refusing his love making you are not wanting him!
~ Affection counts big with men as well!
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Women, you must look at yourself and weigh if he is what you want in life, etc…
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If he is not your “perfect” man, turn him lose without:
~ “breaking” him over your mistakes!
~ punishment
~ abuse of various kinds and degrees
~ a vendetta schemed out over years
~ a nasty divorce
~ etc…
* THANK YOU! … When you treat your men bad, it really makes it rough on the next woman! You know the truth of a scorned woman, it goes both ways in various degrees, etc… *
~ KARMA… Read up on it!
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Women please own up to your mistakes and get help!
~ You know who you are…
~ Fix, resolve your childhood issues!
~ Fix, resolve issues from past men in your life!
~ Learn how to love “YOU”, then you can love a man…
~ Oh, there are far more females in the world then there are men!
FACT: Females are complex (men try to figure us out), men are simple in their thinking, etc…
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FACT:
* “Good” and honest men are out there… *
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http://womensissues.about.com/od/malefemaleattitudes/a/WhyMenCheat.htm
Why Do Men Cheat?
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It’s Not Just About Sex…and She May Not Be Any Better-Looking Than You
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Some men cheat… Faithful mean are out there….
Some statistics say that roughly 50% of married men will cheat, and the vast majority won’t admit to it even after a woman asks the searing question, “Have you been unfaithful to me?”
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A marriage counselor for over 20 years, rabbi and author Gary Neuman conducted a two-year study involving 200 men — 100 who cheated and 100 who remained faithful. His findings form the basis of his 2008 book The Truth About Cheating: Why Men Stray and What You Can Do To Prevent It.
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Of the men surveyed:
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~ 92% say it’s not just about sex
~ 88% say the other woman isn’t better looking or in better shape
~ 55% don’t tell their wives or deny cheating even when confronted with evidence
~ 48% say cheating is about an emotional disconnection from their wives
~ 12% would cheat no matter what
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* Men are much more emotional than women realize. Husbands regard pleasing their wives as akin to ‘winning.’ If they feel valued, they won’t stray; but if they feel under-appreciated they turn elsewhere or behave in ways that push their wives away. Men who try to please their wives but are met with criticism begin to think they can’t win. *
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“Appreciation is what they first and foremost get from the mistress,” said Neuman.
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Finding out the truth is another matter. Neuman’s study found that if a husband cheats, there’s a 93% chance he won’t admit it. And 12% of the men he surveyed will cheat no matter what.
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M. Gary Neuman is a licensed psychotherapist and rabbi who has counseled thousands of couples over 24 years. After talking to many men who have strayed, Neuman has identified some of the most significant relationship issues that lead to infidelity.
~ Learn more about M. Gary Neuman and his upcoming speaking engagements at www.mgaryneuman.com
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Sources:
http://womensissues.about.com/od/malefemaleattitudes/a/WhyMenCheat.htm
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http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/10/02/cheating-study_n_4032035.html?icid=maing-grid7|main5|dl1|sec1_lnk3%26pLid%3D386685

Cheating Survey Finds That People Cheat With People Less Attractive Than Their Spouses

Posted: 10/02/2013 5:14 pm EDT | Updated: 10/02/2013 6:06 pm EDT
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The age-old assumption that people cheat because with someone better looking than their current partner may not actually be true, according to a new survey by Victoria Milan, a dating site for married people looking to have an affair.

The website polled over 4,000 of their members and found that most people using the site consider their significant others to be more attractive than their affair partners.

Interestingly, male respondents said they consider their significant others superior to their affair partners in other ways as well. Only 30 percent of men cheated with women younger than their current partners, and only a quarter of the men found their mistresses more interesting or more in shape than their partners.

So why cheat at all? Men admitted that they found their mistresses to be more passionate, better listeners and more caring than their significant others.

Over half of the female respondents also found their significant others to be more attractive than their affair partners, but 50 percent said their lovers were in better shape. Similar to the male respondents, women reported that their affair partners listen better and are more passionate than their man at home. And a whopping 89.6 percent of the women indicated that the man they’re cheating with makes them feel more appreciated than their significant other.

This isn’t the first time a dating site for cheaters has looked into the habits and preferences of its users. Ashley Madison, another dating website for people already in relationships, found that cheating men love drinking Guinness. And in August, the same site revealed what affair anthems cheating spouses prefer. Check out the slideshow below to see which songs cracked the top ten.

(H/T Cosmopolitan.com)
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BOOKS
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http://www.amazon.com/Truth-about-Cheating-Stray-Prevent/dp/0470114630
~ Gary Neuman … The Truth about Cheating: Why Men Stray and What You Can Do to Prevent It
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http://www.amazon.com/Mars-Women-Venus-Communication-Relationships/dp/006016848X
~ John Gray, PhD author… His books are on point!
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April 16, 2012

2004 PCOS Statistics

Posted in FACT tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , at 6:47 pm by PCOSLady

PCOS Lady: I found these statistics posted on a blog or site in 2004 or 2005… Makes you think how the numbers have increased and maybe decreased over the years… This was the reality of PCOS in 2004!
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PCOS
2004 Statistics

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•~ 6-10% of all Females; ages 5+ years, are PCOS
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•~ 30% of all PCOSers register as Insulin Resistant
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•~ 50% of all PCOSers are overweight
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•~ 40% (up to) of “Unexplained Infertility” patients are actually PCOS and don’t even know it!
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•~ 30% of all PCOSers do not present cysts
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•~ 20% of “Abnormal Glucose Tolerance” tests are PCOS
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•~ 40% of “Abnormal Glucose Tolerance” develop diabetes or impaired glucose tolerance by age 40
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•~ 20% of all infertility patients deal with ovulation problems
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•~ 5% of all infertility patients treat their infertility
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•~ 15% of all infertility patients treat their infertility in a mandated state for infertility coverage insurance
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•~ 75% of all IVF patients deliver a singleton
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•~ 20% of all IVF patients deliver twins
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•~ 5% of all IVF patients deliver triplets
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•~ 25% of normal pregnancies end in miscarriage
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•~ 35-40% of PCOS pregnancies end in miscarriage. This is a 10-15% increase risk over ‘normal’ pregnancies.
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I hope these statistics show you many things… 1st your doctors might be unaware of PCOS and its extremes… 2nd it effects your young girls… Bullying is an epidemic today, weight being a main cause… 3rd you may need to change your direction of testing, treatments, etc… 4th you may gained peace of mind in knowing more of what “it” might be or is… ETC… “IT” depends on YOU since PCOS effects every woman differently… Treatment varies for each woman too!
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I am a firm believer many relationships, marriages and abuse of various degrees would be decreased IF we all know about PCOS…
~ If a female gains 100lbs over a year or close to it, she may have PCOS… Many females fall in to depression or hurt themselves when the weight will not go away!
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* Have them tested for PCOS, a thyroid disorder or another hormone imbalance… Might be something else…
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SMELLS WRONG! NUMBERS INCREASING, DOCTORS INTERPRET PCOS ANY WAY THEY LIKE, ETC.... SOMETHING HAS TO HAPPEN! 2004 THE AACE MADE PCOS A DOCTOR'S PRIORITY!

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